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I KNOW WHY THIS CAGED BLACK BIRD SINGS

I KNOW WHY THIS CAGED BLACK BIRD SINGS

Seen flying high with grace and glory, was admired from afar.  Soaring freely without sound as she had found her way in the world.  She saw the world through her own eyes so rich and pure and without a smudge, until one day the black bird decided to land.  Captured for her beauty held in captivity by her owner to show off to friends, family whoever would see this precious jewel.  This blackbird soon found herself distraught she was no long free to wonder and be herself.  Captured, fed at certain times, saw the sunlight during certain hours; soon became depressed. The blackbird began to sing and the owner thought it was of the most beautiful sound but to the blackbird it was a cry out to be set free to what it had always known.  The blackbird never had to sing because it always had the Freedom of Speech —In today’s society we are chastised for speaking the truth or speaking out against something we believe in; we are called bully’s yet only responding to the bullying that has been bestowed upon us.  Many think that just being quite sometimes is the easy route however; speaking truth into the universe sets in motion a catalyst for change in the right direction and for what one stands for and through this action has made great changes in history.  Freedom Of Equality –I am of equal to anyone that I stand next to or anyone that stands next to me.  There is no one on this earth above me for I know my GOD, with him I have everything.  Freedom...
FRIENDSHIP!!!

FRIENDSHIP!!!

“I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure.  I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle.  But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best. ~Marilyn Monroe   There is no introduction to this Chica next to me.   She is truly one of a kind.  This lovely piece of CottonCandy has dealt with a lot of negativity in her life and has with stood the hands of time.  I see in her what most don’t.  Many do not see the countless hours that I spend with her behind the scenes of BOSL magazine.  When I first took over we had to get into our own flow of what would work better for us and through those hours we truly formed a friendship. Cotton knows many secrets of Reign and yet she continues to come back for more.  She knows the good, bad and the ugly.  This woman is very transparent, she doesn’t always agree with me and I truly appreciate that because it always give me a different perspective on how to look at different issues that come my way.  She has become a calming force in my life and helps me to take many things in stride. Have you ever had the chance to talk to her on the phone?  OH MY!! What a wonderful and sweet voice… She will have you laughing and will keep you talking for hours on subjects that would have never crossed your mind in a million years and time just flies with her.  She has so...
GLUE OF LIFE

GLUE OF LIFE

TRUST is the GLUE of life. It’s the MOST essential ingredient in effective COMMUNICATION.  It’s the foundational principle that HOLDS all RELATIONSHIPS.  (Steven Covey) My hubby came to me one night about a comment that was made to him of my writings on our blog.  It seems that I don’t write about our relationship as much.  I have to admit I was taken back with this for a minute and really contemplated not writing anymore due to the fact as I saw the comment as truly one-sided. We love to write about our relationship; we have our ups and downs as any other couple.  We have our insecurities,communication gaps and even trust issues to name a few but again who doesn’t?  We choose to work through our issues as small as they are and rarely do they even rear their ugly heads but when they do we tackle them head on. Kev knows my moods and can sense when something is wrong and vice versa and we stop long enough to let the person talk.  Active listening is essential in our relationship and is the very thing that keeps our friendship alive and well.  We are allowed to be ourselves without reservation and our choice of expression is not ridiculed. I guess it’s great to know that we have a following and people want to look into our lives and how we handle our relationship.  We both try to be as transparent as we can with our readers about our relationship but one must keep in mind that both Kev and I are multi- dimensional and have more than...
Soulfood – Dinner Date

Soulfood – Dinner Date

Easter weekend is behind us. Most of us have ate heartily and are still recouping. But i wanted to talk a little about soulfood. There is something about praising someone. The acknowledgement of someone else. That voice that speaks quietly yes “I see you”, “I see your being, your value, your worth, your pain, your struggle, your sadness and your hope.” The easiest thing to get someones attention is to praise them. It’s more then an ego thing. It’s not just a hey “ur pretty” or a “hey your sexy”. It’s an attraction opener. It’s a way of saying you got my attention, now I’ve opened a portion of myself to you. Even if it’s an ear to hear that next line of game being spit or a pillow to find comfort by the laying of concerns and worry on another hoping to find a voice of reason or a passive listener. We are made in the image of our creator, who made everything to glorify him. “.Every tree shall bow and rock shall cry out.” So as God desires the praises of his people so do we desire praise as a form of food. It is in some forms a restoration. “Edification” To lift up someone is like taking glass cleaner and wiping the smudges and dirt off the mirror of your self image. So comes the perversion. Even the enemy knows the power of praise and that is why its used to get directly pass the cruff and straight to a heart of a person. Maybe someone not even looking to be bothered. This is why its crucial...
HOW DO YOU KEEP THE MUSIC PLAYING?

HOW DO YOU KEEP THE MUSIC PLAYING?

I am always in awe of couples that have made it for over 50-60 years. I wonder how they keep it together and remain lovers and friends. Relationships are one of the hardest tasks to maintain because it involves to very unique individuals with very different thought patterns, outlooks and every at times different cultural backgrounds. I see daily within my own relationship that it’s a growing and ever understanding of another person. When we first meet that special person its so easy to keep the music playing and sparks flying. You look forward to hearing each other’s voice daily and counting the days, hours, minutes till you see that person again. It’s one of the most exciting times in a relationship yet the newest part of one. Once you have been in that relationship for a while you begin to uncover how that other person works. What their quirks are, what makes them tick whether good or bad. This to me is the most interesting part of a relationship. As humans we are forever growing in one way or another. Over time we change, our thought patterns, the things we enjoy doing seem to fluctuate. We actually get to enjoy the phenomenal part of another person growing/changing. We emerge ourselves into another person, feeling their words, their actions. For a minute just being able to look from afar to see the wonders that another person’s character takes on. How can one not want to keep understanding this wondrous being that GOD has given us? A relationship is knowing you can be the best of friends. We all know...
FUTURERAMA

FUTURERAMA

  “CLEARING AWAY THE NOISE TO LET OUR ABILITY AND PRESENCE COME THROUGH IN CRITICAL PERFORMANCE MOMENTS.”-FOSTER MOBLEY There are those people who will try to get in the way of your success and create a lot of noise to put you in what they think is a very compromising position.  I am learning as a leader the ones you thought were close to you are the ones that have a fear of your success and therefore try to cause you failure. Embrace this in your life as you will find that as a leader it gives you that challenge to overcome any obstacle that is put in front of you.  Leaders deal with a lot of negativity and that is why it’s very important to surround yourself with positive like-minded people that can help steer you in the direction you want to go; not cause you to veer off to the left side and you end up at a dead end.   Over the last several months I have learned many valuable lessons about being a leader and being able to separate friendships from business.  While you can maintain both on very good levels, it’s not good when people use their friendships as a way to get in the way of your business and only seem to do things because they are your “Friend”.  Truth be told, it’s great to have friends who deal with us in business as long as they understand there is a boundary.  When you look at real life businesses, people are friends but do not take space in a business because of friendship more so,...
EBB & FLOW

EBB & FLOW

Constant state of flux….Seems to be the way life takes it turns and you get a few bumps and bruises along the way.  Realizing that everyone is not your friend but there to criticize every move you make even the good ones.  Find fault in all that you do.  We all have seen these people in our lives a few times, some pass through because we see who they are up front and some stay a while because they hide behind a smiling face with their own hidden agendas.  These are the ones that can hurt us the most as we never see them coming. Never let anything surprise you, always expect the unexpected I have been taught.  It doesn’t matter whether you are successful in your own right or not, it’s all the same.  There are levels to people who enter our lives as I look at a tree.  We have the leaves which blow in the wind and these are the people that will blow from one side to the other depending on what is happening at that point in time or not and if it benefits them, these people will leave you at a moment’s notice. Realize they are only here for a blink of an eye.  The branches a little stronger not as much wiggle room however; blow but are more constant than the leaves but can bend and break if given the right opportunity.  Then you have your trunk and roots and this is where your true friends lie.  These are the people that no matter how you mess up they will be there. ...
Why do we “Trust” Google more then God?

Why do we “Trust” Google more then God?

Picture this. You get up in the morning and decide some breakfast from your favourite spot sounds really good. So you jump in you car. Take that same right turn and head on down 5th street to johnson way and make a left 2 blocks down and there sits “Pancakes, Sausage and Waffles.” You know they got the best waffles in town.  It was not even a thought taken on how to get there you’ve been there several times before and today was no exception. Belly full on the way home, you get a call from your best friend telling you they want you to meet them for lunch at this new place that you both wanted to go to. Only problem is, its 2 hours away and you have never been there before. No problem, you whip out your phone open your mic and say “Navigate to Bob’s Seafood Bonanza” a few moments goes by while Google does its thing (sorry apple users we all know google got maps :p) and there it is your destination pops up with a few choices. One will get you there quicker; One you can avoid the tolls but will take longer; One takes you a more scenic route but not too different. Time is of the essence so you just pick the first one and off you go to a new place, a new destination and Google is going to make sure you get there as Google predicted as long as you don’t deviate from what she tells you to do. So you head off jammin in your car to Keith Sweat...
#Vulnerable

#Vulnerable

Kicks off the high heels, takes off the clothes of another hard day’s work and walks down by the ocean to listen to the soft words to calm the ever so restless soul that I have. I am now vulnerable to the night and the ocean who have beckoned me as they have heard my cry in silence for so long. I sit on the dock as the water creeps to my feet to welcome me and I start to speak. Ocean, may I be transparent tonight? I have let the disappointments of my life bound me in such a way that I have kept so many things quiet over the years afraid that I would be judged, rejected, ridiculed, when all I wanted was for people to love me. I hid behind a smiling face when it was hurt that I would bare day in and day out. So many tragedies have happened that have kept me from reaching my true potential and destiny and now I just need to be free to be me and not what people portray me to be. Let’s go back in time when I was a teen getting pregnant at the age of sixteen. Never being taught about sex and the influence of friends deciding to lose my virginity, not recognizing how precious my body is. How about being in a controlling relationship where your boyfriend handcuffs you to the bed, has sex with you at his discretion and doesn’t take you home for days and your mother doesn’t even question your whereabouts? Then in a drunken state he tries to throw...
TEAMWORK

TEAMWORK

“Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their hard work. For if one of them should fall, the other one can raise his partner up. But how will it be with just the one who falls when there is not another to raise him up?” – Ecclesiastes 4:9,10   Sometimes it’s forgotten that relationships are teamwork. It doesn’t matter whether it’s a friendship, parental, love it’s still a team. Two or more people coming together for a common goal and this is the ingredient that is left out of many dating and marriage relationships. There is another person at your side to help you through life and be that strength when you can’t seem to figure out sometimes life hard equations. You must have a mutual respect, corporation and constant diligence to push forth. Of course, there will always be roadblocks along the way to test your strength as a couple and you must be prepared for that. When disagreements come your way, realize they are just that not everyone is going to agree on everything all the time but learn to respect and accept the other person’s feelings and not try to change them. Everyone is entitled to how they feel as one person’s perception is another person’s reality. Every relationship is tested with many different things and it’s your attitude and outlook that will help you get to the next level. Stand the test of time and create the team you always wanted to have. Khalied and I are not without our issues its more about how we tackle them with love...

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Love is an action. It’s how you think, breathe, move and live your life moment to moment. When you no longer have to choose to love but to just love then, you are ready to walk into all that life has for you. You will finally understand why of all the things we can do in this world love is the most important thing that will ever matter.

Khalied Jameson

CEO ConcreteSL, ConcreteSL