I am always in awe of couples that have made it for over 50-60 years. I wonder how they keep it together and remain lovers and friends. Relationships are one of the hardest tasks to maintain because it involves to very unique individuals with very different thought patterns, outlooks and every at times different cultural backgrounds.
I see daily within my own relationship that it’s a growing and ever understanding of another person. When we first meet that special person its so easy to keep the music playing and sparks flying. You look forward to hearing each other’s voice daily and counting the days, hours, minutes till you see that person again. It’s one of the most exciting times in a relationship yet the newest part of one.
Once you have been in that relationship for a while you begin to uncover how that other person works. What their quirks are, what makes them tick whether good or bad. This to me is the most interesting part of a relationship. As humans we are forever growing in one way or another. Over time we change, our thought patterns, the things we enjoy doing seem to fluctuate. We actually get to enjoy the phenomenal part of another person growing/changing. We emerge ourselves into another person, feeling their words, their actions. For a minute just being able to look from afar to see the wonders that another person’s character takes on. How can one not want to keep understanding this wondrous being that GOD has given us?
A relationship is knowing you can be the best of friends. We all know that with vanity some lose their luster and all we have left is communication. It’s amazing how you can learn so much from someone, whether you agree or not it’s still a mind-blowing experience.
I find myself being surprised daily by what looks at me on a daily basis. I can’t help but want to keep going back for more. The guidance I receive sometimes may or may not work but it keeps the communication open. Realizing that we are different people yet accepting each difference as a learning and growing experience we will never find ourselves without anything to talk about. This sometimes can be a very scary part of a relationship as you grow closer to that person hoping they find the same with you; hoping and only wanting the best for our relationship.
I am blessed that I had yesterday and I have to day to keep making it better. I won’t take advantage of letting the music stop on its own I will keep rewinding it and seeing how I can continue to make it better. This is how those long term relationships have worked. Working with each other, listening to each other and loving. Keeping that fire going and finding new and exciting music to listen too.
I wish for everyone to have what I found the music I have. When you find it, it won’t be perfect in the beginning however; I promise you that if you keep watering your plant it will grow. You will build something that in this world is the most powerful of all.
The best of the music that will never stop playing.
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How do you keep the music playing?
How do you make it last?
How do you keep the song from fading too fast?
How do you lose yourself to someone?
And never lose your ways How do you not run out of new things to say?
And since we’re always changing How can it be the same?
And tell me how year after year You’re sure your heart will fall apart Each time you hear his name I know the way I feel for you It’s now or never The more I love the more that I’m afraid That in your eyes I may not see forever.. Forever…
If we can be the best of lovers Yet be the best of friends If we can try with everyday to make it better as it grows With any luck, then I suppose The music never ends I know the way I feel for you It’s now or never!
(How do you keep the music playing?)
The more I love the more that I’m afraid (How do you make it last) That in your eyes I may not see forever Forever…
(How do you keep the song from fading, keep the song from fading too fast) If we can be the best of lovers Yet be the best of friends If we can try with everyday to make it better as it grows With any luck, then I suppose The music never ends