THE SHADE MOMENT!!!

THE SHADE MOMENT!!!

“People will talk about you when they envy you and the life you lead.  Let them.  You affected their life.  Don’t let them affect yours”.

 

“The fact that people talk about you that don’t know you says a lot about them”.

Let’s face the facts; people talk about me no matter what the case.  Whether it’s made up, something that was taken out of context or plain factual.  I recently asked some friends of mine both in real life and second life “so what is it that makes me such a bad person to people and talk the way they do about me?”  The answer was not a shock but confirmed what I had always been thinking; I’m a woman and one of color I may add.  Get off your high horse as if you don’t see color. We all do!!!

Since taking on The Best of SL & Co., I have received such things as it’s just a matter of time before it closes, she doesn’t know how to run a company; She is just a B***h that thinks she is all that.  Now, why do I differ from a man?  Does this mean that women would rather follow men?  What are they hoping for, is it that they need someone to lead them, tell them they look pretty all the time and the verbal affections of a man whether good or bad?

I had a pity party alone, and then decided who the hell these people are, and they have no clue of what they are saying about me.  I have gotten to a point of not caring what anyone thinks anymore and here is why.

Giving a damn about people who have their agenda.  Many of the employees I had have come and gone due to not being able to have their way.  Trying to tell me how to run my company and that’s why when I bought it, it was already in the red.  How in the hell is someone going to tell me how to run my company that doesn’t have a pot to piss in or a window to through it out?  Now, I said many, not all.  Some left due to real life reasons and believed me that is understandable but then you have what I call a fair-weather friend.  We are all accustomed to this type of person; they flow where they think they can get the biggest bang for their buck.  Now here is the funny part, they want to do business with others and call me un-loyal.  Who the hell am I to be loyal to but others than who are loyal to me?  So many come into my life and tell me who I need to get rid of in my organization and the next thing I know their off for the competitor because they all in their feelings about something or another.  What that told me is you are a weak person, and I don’t need or want you within my organization.  I have some of the strongest men and women that work on my team, and we all have a job to do and not babysit someone who got their feelings hurt by something that was a misunderstanding.  The world is full of issues that will happen but if you can’t talk and discuss them but run to someone who you think will put it out on Social Media, then you need to rethink your communication skills as they are truly lacking.

Since being in this small industry of fashion, it has been nothing but cutthroat at every turn.  I don’t do an interview the way someone wants it because who in the hell has four hours to sit and interview people?  Maybe you do, but I know my staff does not have this kind of time, and we all make decisions as a team, because this decision was made, I am accused of cheating because I want a certain person to win a pageant that I do not even judge.  What the fuck is this?

People trying to tell me how to run my magazine, well when you have 2 million followers then you can speak but until then shut the hell up.  The magazine started going downhill and when I took it back over is when it flourished so, please get your damn facts straight.

What is wrong with a woman who knows what she wants, sees a vision and tries hard to make it happen or is that only for a man?  So many of you are so damn catty and into your egos, you can’t see the forest for the trees.  A man and woman can tell the same story, however; most women (I stated most) will believe in the man and say the woman is lying, shake my damn head are you this gullible or just like playing as if you have no sense at all?

As for my businesses, you might want to find out first hand from me and not from someone who thinks they know me on how I do things.  I have been as nice and transparent in second life for the last seven years but that is about to all change, and I will turn your world upside down.  I thought I had to be nice to people and try to compromise with them to do business, what I found was the exact opposite, people want to be treated like dirt, and then they feel as if they are worth something (again most people).  In my real life, I handle billions of dollars daily, and I am very successful and even managed to start up AGAIN my real life beauty business which I am not in the virtual reality world all day every day?  For some, this is a way of making a living and yes that would be expected for them to be in “making money” not talking trash and crap about people they know second hand.  Let me ask you this?  Are you famous when you hit that red (X) at the top of the right-hand corner of your computer?  I guess many of you lead average lives like most and need to cause shit all over a virtual world to make yourself feel better because you are behind a computer.  Guess what if that is who you are in Second Life that is who you are in real life.

People I have been very transparent about everything in my life and if you don’t like it well then one thing you can say is that I didn’t lie or cheat or steal from anyone.  My ethics and morals say more about me than you care to admit, but again thank you for thinking of me.

There are people within the virtual community that I just refuse to work with, and I have made that clear and not to say am ashamed of that. Reason being is how they treated me.  Now realize I do not retaliate without just cause but when I do then others want to play the victim.  Come on now show your true colors you want to be the “It” person then say it how it is?

So many of you have talked shit behind my back and crawl up in my face, don’t think I don’t notice it.  I knew exactly who ALL of you are, and you won’t like the treatment you receive from me from here on out.  I am a very easy flowing friend and loyal to the end, but I will be damned if I let someone run all over me, because they have their own damn agenda’s (many of you do).

The bottom line is the reason many of you do not like me is because I have my shit together, I am a woman of color (no I am not a man), I decided to run my business as I saw fit and not the way you thought it should be run (many of you I look at your track record and seriously, GO To Fucking Business School).  Second Life can be used as a platform to doing business, however; you will fail if you are not good with communication because this world is all about that.  If you can’t forgive someone at work or talk it out and agree to disagree then get the hell out of other people’s businesses and start your own, oh wait you may fail there too since again it’s about communication.

Understand I will run my business as I see fit.  I don’t see any of you putting money in my pocket, but you will take in a minute and do a piss poor job and wonder why you were fired, or you left knowing you were about to be on the chopping block.  One thing I cannot stand is a liar and a cheater, one thing not one of you will EVER be able to say about me, so make all your bullshit up, and it’s quite funny actually.

Stop coming to me and telling me who my real friends are and aren’t, hell are you one?  Probably not.  Do you know me or just of me, pity for the person who can’t find out all the facts themselves?

Let me settle your shade throwing with these tidbits.

I have a degree, three actually.

I have been running businesses for over 30 years.

You don’t like me then get the hell away from me and my brand.

I will run my business as I see fit, follow me, unfollow me.  I would rather have 100 loyal people behind me than 200 thousand of you fake ass people, which take up my time and energy.

If you don’t like the way I do business then at least be honest and we can agree, but to be an undercover heffa and talk shit behind my back just shows where your head was in the first place, and I don’t have time for you.

Expect to have me come back at you when you speak of me with negative connotations; I am tired of your shit and it’s time for me to treat you the same way you treat me.  It’s time for an eye for an eye.

Many may say I am stooping to a low.  No Honie bunnies, I am just giving you the treatment you deserve.  I run a tight ship in real life; this is my money and my time so guess what, shit or get off the pot.

Get off all my social media pages if you don’t like me, stop following me thinking you will find gossip, sorry I have nothing to feed your manic egos.

If I take time out of my busy day for you, that means you are important to me and I respect you.  Many of my so called haters are those whom I did not give them their way. Its ok, people in hell want ice water, get over it.

Over 20 years in the entertainment industry (started in clothing design and moved into makeup).

Do you have a letter from the Emmy Awards thanking you for the hard work you have done in the industry?  Probably not, but I do and qualified enough to give advice.  I am not a fake in anything that I do; you need to ponder that one.

For me, there is only one God.  I have never seen a Fashion God.

Lastly, for the ones who state that they are now independent and making references on social media; you’re independent of what.  No one ever trapped you anywhere.  We all have the right to make choices some good and some bad.  But don’t blame your independence on me, learn to be independent and think for yourselves.

Welcome to Independence Day bitches.

 

Signing off.

Laying down the hammer or nah

Laying down the hammer or nah

“Laying down the hammer or nah”

In the business world, we are not good about sharing our emotions — unless the emotion is anger! We show anger very easily.

We kid ourselves that we are most effective or ‘professional’ in the business world when it is a stiff and formal place.

When we experience rejection, we feel hurt. That is an important emotion to notice and to acknowledge.

When we are little kids, our parents can pick us up and kiss our bruises and make us feel better. As little kids we’re not embarrassed to say “I got hurt” or “Those kids hurt my feelings.”

As we get older, we don’t talk so readily about our hurt feelings. We still feel pain, but it translates into anger. We don’t say “You guys, it really hurts me when I see you not fulfilling your word. I don’t know what to do about it. I’m doing the best I can. I want to be a good team player to you guys. How can we work together more effectively?”

Instead, we say “You people better shape up or ship out! Or better yet I’m out ” We don’t want to talk about our hurt feelings, so we get angry and bring the hammer down, instead.

When managers and leaders feel anger, they have lots of ways to show it! They can discipline employees. They can write people up and put them on probation. You could even fire someone on your team — but what good would that do? (Note* Some people def need to be fired.)

You know that the energy in the team is the problem — not any one employee (most of the time) or even the whole group of them. To shift the energy in your team, you have to soften first.

You have to sit down with each team member one on one, and open up. You have to say “I need your help. I’m confused and frustrated by the poor morale and the low trust level in our team. What can I do to change that?”

You will ask each person “What can I do to change the negative energy in our team?” You will ask for each team member’s ideas. You won’t tell them what you need them to do. You can’t force people to respect you.

It’s just the opposite! The more you push, the farther away your teammates will move and the more resistant they’ll become.

The less they’ll listen to you or care about what you have to say. You have to go in the opposite direction!

Instead of pushing them away, you’ll lean back and invite them into your sphere.  You’ll do that by being human with them. You’ll be open and humble, and ask “How can I do a better job managing your gifts and talents?”

That’s what a leader does. A leader doesn’t bring the hammer down in order to try to force people to care. That’s an impossible task. You can’t make people care!

After all, that’s what your team has been trying to do for these past months. They’ve been trying to get you to care about them and their wounded feelings over someone’s failure to get your job and or the departure of another team member or because you didn’t give the go ahead on a idea.

Their hurt reactions look to you like hostility. That makes sense, because fear and hostility are two sides of the same coin. Your team’s reactions to your idea’s and decisions not there’s have made you angry. See the cycle?

You’re in charge, so take charge of changing the negative energy into positive Team Mojo not by using force, but by being open and human with your teammates and letting them know that you need their help.

You being a great leader in rl and sl is understanding that people all want to feel relevant and feel care is involved. The biggest motivation you’ll ever get is from people passionate about what they do and, people that feel important and recognized by the company they support will always go above and beyond for them.

Be blessed,
Khalied ‘Kev’ Jameson

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Hypocrisy

Hypocrisy

A brand new year is upon us, and as I look back on the last year, I realize all the mistakes that I have made with business associates and with so-called friends.

As fun as I know Second Life to be it has its share of being a great rumor mill. My name has been used in many rumors from firing people to saying unruly and untrue things of others when in fact my time has been very limited within this virtual world we all know and love. I find it amazing that within such a creative outlet place so many have so much hatred within their beings that many find themselves yearning for real life as it’s filled with less drama and much more excitement. When I came to Second Life it was a place to escape from the real world problems if only for a second, to be whatever you wanted to be and to be accepted, or so one would think when in fact you are judged to a much higher level as expected not to have any flaws or make any mistakes. Realizing that if I sneezed the wrong way it would be taken very negative and considered drama.

 

I can’t tell you how many times I have been asked not to have people work for me, not include them in projects I may be working on all because of a misunderstanding or a past treatment, misconception or just not getting along. I would ask myself what did this have to do with myself and the business that I run after all its business or one would think. To my dismay it becomes a double standard; in my plight to make people happy and to lose myself to agreeing and abiding by these things, what is known about me people will continuously go against the same issues they are asking me not be involved in. I have found in many instances where business decisions that involve my brands, and I are treated by other as “Reign, that doesn’t have anything to do with us and its business,” where am I going wrong here?

I know where I went wrong, I allowed what I thought was a friendship to come in-between what was good and not good for my business. One must realize that friendships should be separate from business unless you have that understanding up front. I could not realize why I have been so unhappy with the latest events that I have been seeing and truly wanting to give up on this virtual world I have come to love so much in the last seven years. Why should I be held to a different standard and why should people be such hypocritical against everything that I do and say?

How I have heard in not so long ago conversations that I have some people that love BOSL the brand, however; because of whatever happened between them and I don’t necessarily like me anymore. Guess what I am the brand, so again another hypocritical statement. Dozens of people running to me trying to tell me what is going on with the competitor that by the way I could care less and then you see them over at the competitor (makes you go hmm). How many times has this been brought to my attention? I do not go out seeking information although it manages to find its way back to me and truly shows me the loyalty of people within this game. I do question how some people are in real life and if they practice their actions there as they do here within this virtual world.

With all this being said, I will and have made some changes. I am confessing for myself that I will no longer take the abuse that has been handed to me. If I feel that doing shows for my company will hurt its reputation because of the continued hypocrisy, I will say no to them. If my staff wants to write on issues they feel may cause issues, it’s ok we like to be different after all everyone has a right to live their Second life as they see fit. Are you living yours correct? I should be able to live as open or as closed as I chose, work with who I chose or not. I will not apologize for standing up for my brand and my staff and if that means people thinks its “drama” so be it, as I am sure you would do the same. Some things I chose to keep quiet on, however; there will be issues that I just will not anymore as I am a person that has feelings just as you and have just as much right to express them as they are being expressed against me. I am a very professional person, however; even professional people make statements from time to time so that should be an expectation.

People, I am real, I am professional, and I will make my fair share of mistakes, however; please remember, “He without sin cast the first stone.” Get over yourselves. I have.

 

Love, Peace and Always Happiness

 

Reign Congrejo Jameson

 

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LOYALTY

LOYALTY

Surround yourself with the dreamers and the doers, the believers and the thinkers, but most of all, surround yourself with those who see greatness within you, even when you don’t see it yourself. (T.D. Jakes).

I am the master of my house and the keeper of my mind. Trying to work towards excellence with integrity and honor sometimes can be a battle. Tiring days of seeing negative posts on social media about things only people can imagine with no truth to them at all. Never a kind word they speak, finding fault in all that you do. I used to find this very upsetting and would get mad that people would make up such things about me, and then I started to realize and understand –there is not one thing I can do about it, people will believe what they choose to believe whether the story is true or not.

Being in the center of the public eye, one has to expect that they will be ridiculed with every step they make. The reason is simple; they just don’t understand. Is it my place to try and defend all that is said about me? I think not. What good would that do, only to fuel the negative thoughts and end up trying to explain again the unexplainable?

Some choose only to be loyal to that which provides them with a temporary fix and makes them look good. Once that time is over, they are onto the next shiny thing that they think will make them big. How many times have I heard, “your business is failing”, or “who does she think she is, I should be the CEO even though it’s her company.” I have been cross-examined on things that I do for the better of a business and not to satisfy myself with making and thinking I am bigger and should be paid more attention. That is not the type of person I am or strive to be. Credit is given where credit is due. Everything does not have to have my name on it if it’s a team effort it’s for the betterment of the team to be inclusive. I have found more people than not that are just in things for what they can get. For the moment, I may be the shiniest thing, and some are charging me with can you do this and that, not realizing that it’s a two-way street and again not about just one person or one thing. It’s about working as a team for the cause.

Many people claim to know me, but it’s those people that know me and the vision that I stand for that remain at my side. It’s not always about what one person wants; it has to work for the good of those around you as well. Many persons I have let go out of my life because the only agenda was to better themselves through my defeat. There is no bitterness or anger towards them; it was just time to let go and let flow as many have heard me say. I know that I am on a journey, and some are meant to be on that journey with me and some are just along for a short ride. Once they get off, I wish them well for they are on their success journey.

I am not sure many understand what Loyalty stands for. Things can go right and wrong, up and down. Does that mean that when things are down you flee to the company of others or do you stay and fight? I am loyal to the cause and will always be that way. I do not waver; that is one aspect of my life many know about me. I don’t look for the next shiny thing to drop and run too until I figure out maybe that was not the right direction to take and, therefore, start to back track. Believe in what you are doing, believe in where you are, if you never have loyalty to one thing how will you become good at it and make it succeed? Will you continue to run after every shiny thing that you see pass your way and be the opportunist at every turn?

People will say I will fail, but I only will fail because of the people that are next to me pulling me down, how one could ever fail with the perseverance of others that believe and know what it takes to get to the other side. It is best that if you cannot offer your dreams, your greatness, and desires to be part of something that maybe at the time you don’t understand, then maybe it’s time for you to rethink your motives and realize that everything to you is an opportunity, and the loyalty only lies in the ones that can do something for you and not you doing something to help the cause and working toward a common goal to make that one thing successful.

Some people are made to be in our lives, not everyone. If you are not a dreamer, believer, inspirer, unfortunately, there is will be no room in my life, as I am loyal to all with me, and that loyalty only changes when someone decides they want to be negative. You can’t ever fail with having the loyal followers behind you.

 

Love you like honey,

Reign Congrejo Jameson

 

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GIVING CREDIT WHERE CREDIT IS DUE!!

GIVING CREDIT WHERE CREDIT IS DUE!!

A Good Leader Takes More Than His Share Of The Blame, A Little Less Than His Share Of The Credit. (Arnold H. Glasow)

 

 

Let’s just be clear… Giving credit where credit is due seems to be the subject everyone wants to have their hands in. We all want to the pat on the back for a job well done in this day and age. I can’t tell you how many countless hours I have put into projects from behind the scenes in order to make my superiors look good without a word or even my name for some invention or a piece of writing on “how to” to get them to the next level. It use to upset me to the fullest, and I use to rant about it to my co-workers, family, friends and anyone whom would take the time to listen. Then one day the “Ah-Ha” moment hit me.

I am sure that many of you have had those “Ah-Ha” moments in life where something comes to you and where you had your blinders on, you now are seeing things much clearer. All of those times I wrote or came up with ideas for others was preparing me for greater things and to be able to move into my destiny. I learned that what I wrote or invented no one would ever be able to explain what I did or how I did it to the extent as I would. What was I worrying about? Let the Executives ask how something was accomplished because that meant that the subject matter expert “being me” would ultimately have to be brought in, in order to explain the ins and outs of a project and its success.

It is so funny how I sit back and watch those who truly want to have credit given, now please do not misunderstand me. There are many that need those pats on the back to acknowledge that they have done a great job, however; we must always understand that many of us do not work alone. Being the owner of a business within a virtual world as well as being the head of a revenue corporation in the real world, I have learned that I cannot complete tasks by myself. I have a team that I ask for their help on a daily basis to get tasks done. In many of my blogs, my appearances I always give credit to my staff for their hard work. Being a CEO or Chief only means that I must be able to provide the tools to the staff for them to complete their jobs and by the deadlines given. It does not mean that the title is used to push myself higher, and my ego becomes so big that no one can tell me anything because I know it all. I believe that looking to my staff since they are on the front line they are in the know and should have a voice. Some ideas will work for a business some may not fit in, but you continue to try and push forward and tweak until you find the right fit.

In the real world, I have been in business for almost thirty years. I have come to understand that some things will work, and some things do not. I am learning what types of people to surround myself with and which ones not too. How many of you know at least one millionaire that you can have as a mentor? How many of you know at least one successful business person in the real world that you can have as a mentor? How many of you surround yourself with people that will help push you to the next level of achievement without expecting anything from you, only that you have the will to succeed and want to give back to the next person? These are the people that you want to surround yourself with; that will help you to get to that next level. The questions I just asked you the answer for me is “Yes” I have all of these and many of them surrounding me in my real world existence. As great as Second life is, it’s for a stepping stone for what is to come in my real world. I know what my destiny is, and I am working towards it.

I do not need to take credit for what I know my staff does. Many come to me behind the scenes and have for guidance, however; not once do you see my name on any of it. It’s not about my name it’s about getting the job done and I believe that we are all a team and put in the same amount of work. Many of you judge me and I think it’s actually great because that shows me that you have not checked all of your facts which, unfortunately, I find very sad and true with a lot of people within the virtual world. People would rather believe a great lie because the story told is so much better than the truth. Because someone may not like another, it’s easy to find fault and jump on the bandwagon of another however; one thing about me, regardless of what I may feel about a person personally when it comes to business I deal with them on that level (its business). The real world works the same. We need to learn to keep our personal feelings out of our business for this is what makes you not have success. There are many businesses competing with each other, however; there is nothing personal. Learn to remove all that negativity as its only hurting yourself. Let’s start giving our selves credit for being creditworthy. Start looking behind the scenes of many businesses and you will see it’s not the one who you may think is running the business but many behind the scene that keep it going and growing.

 

“It is amazing what you can accomplish if you do not care who gets the credit.”   ~ Harry S. Truman

 

Love Ya Like Honey…

Reign Congrejo Jameson

 

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Attitude+Purpose=Destiny

Attitude+Purpose=Destiny

This one has been a long time coming. I have shed some tears, gotten angry, stepped back and had much reflection on even how to present on this very topic. So many may relate to it, and some may walk away, however; in the end many may come to know who I am and what I truly stand for.

I want to preface this and  all other posts that I make, have no bearing on my relationship with my Second life Husband. He and I had relationships before we met each other, and sometimes we share about those mountains we had to climb to get where we are today.   We try to be transparent in our journeys with you, so try not to think that our blogs are about each other in fact it’s just the opposite of how we found each other and ultimately what holds us together.

I have been reading many books and listening to many ministries and praying in hopes to finding my purpose and destiny. I sit back and think “There is more to life”. I am always striving for more. What that tells me is that I have not reached my true potential and purpose in life. The more I read, the more I pray I start to realize what actions are happening around me. People would tell me things to either depress me or make me upset. People would talk about me and say things that were very untrue. I would hear things such as “I heard this about you but didn’t believe it, until now”- from someone who has known me for many years. What I didn’t realize at the time is that these things were purely a test. Many things will come to offend me, it’s my reaction to it that truly will count in the long run.

I reflect on many of the relationships that I have had and must admit some of them I didn’t realize why they ended or how they ended the way they did. I was hurt, torn apart and thought my life would never be the same without them. This wasn’t just love relationships; these were friendships I had for long periods of time.   We all have scratched our heads and wondered why something went south so fast, and we just didn’t understand how it happened. When I started to seek really out who I was and on my journey to understanding my purpose I found that my eyes that were once clouded by what I wanted to see, where starting to become very clear with truth and facts that were laid before me. What I realized that in those relationships they were meant to be learning and stepping stones in my life. To teach me along my journey, some good, some bad but never the less a lesson into becoming who I am. I was being tested with small things, small conflicts, and small disagreements. How was I going to handle such small conflict? What many do not understand is that you will always have conflict and offenses in your life, how will you handle it? If people decide to walk away from you because of a little conflict or disagreement, let them walk. Do not hold on to them. As Bishop TD Jake said in one of his sermons “They are not of you, so they are not with you”, those with you will be there through it all, not when it only counts for them. It has gotten easier to let people go from my life because really this life is temporary, and people will fail you all the time, people do not write my destiny and I have a far greater purpose that one of man. If a boyfriend, friend, husband, wife, wants to leave, let them leave there will be nothing you can do because those steps were ordered and no matter how much crying, begging or arguing you do, you cannot make that person stay, they are not for your life. Let’s get real, everything in this life as we know it is temporary and when you die, you will not be able to take one thing with you EXCEPT your SOUL.

As my eyes became clearer I saw that I kept looking down at the ground, another analogy was made about the Chicken and the Eagle. Chickens eat off the ground, and they eat anything even their feces, ever wondered why a chicken can’t fly? My life was bound living like a chicken eating the emotional, mental stresses and offenses that people would hand me, and I would let it wear on me instead of just shaking it off and not letting it have a strong hold on me. Learning to forgive somethings, not because the others thought I should but because my destiny is being blocked, and I can’t ever become the woman I was meant to be by holding onto all that negativity that people want to throw on me. I made a vow to let it go and move on in my search for my purpose. I remember hearing that even in business when you are given authority let’s say CEO of a company you are given that because you are the one that people come to as you can handle the stress. You make the big money to handle the stress. A CEO job is not to look good, or hold a prestigious title and sit back and not do anything with it, they step out and handle any stressors that come their way. The test here it comes. Many of these test(s) that are being thrown at me whether it’s in real life of second life it’s only preparing me for the next level. The worker bees have a certain level of stress and a certain level of pay, if anyone wants to move up they must accept the stress that comes along with that level they are working towards. You can’t say someone is hurting your feelings, jumping on you; you’re the head and leader that the baton and start heading the team to greatness. Soar like an Eagle, have vision like an Eagle; see your prey miles away and focus.

Being at the top you have to learn to interact with people. We may sit across from one another, and I may not agree with everything you say, that’s not my job to agree with you all the time. But at the end of the day when our business is finished we should be able to break and say “Hey good job now let’s get some dinner and have a good time.” That’s what true leadership and friendship are about. You will find this from some of the top Corporate CEO, Lawyers, and Entertainers. They may not get along or even agree at the business table; they realize their job may be on opposite sides of the table however; at the end of the day they know who they are and settle back into the friendships that they cherish with one another.

I say, everyone, if you don’t know me do not judge me. If I say no, it’s usually for a reason and if you do not understand ask for clarification that I am always able to explain. I may not always see eye to eye with everyone but always try to look at the other persons view if given the chance. My destiny is purpose driven, and if I am not for you if you chose to go, please know I will not hold you, I will let you go for I need those around me that are for me, and I can be for them. I am who I am, and you are who you are, let’s not change each other but work together for the higher purpose.

 

Love ya like honey.

Reign Congrejo Jameson

 

Reign’s Style

Hair-Boon ZPO133 Black
Dress: Sweet Kajirs*Gulleveig Dress Purple Fitted *Rare* Fantasy Gatcha
Necklace: Zenith=Leafs Necklace
Mask:  Illusions-Curiata

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