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THE SHADE MOMENT!!!

THE SHADE MOMENT!!!

“People will talk about you when they envy you and the life you lead.  Let them.  You affected their life.  Don’t let them affect yours”.   “The fact that people talk about you that don’t know you says a lot about them”. Let’s face the facts; people talk about me no matter what the case.  Whether it’s made up, something that was taken out of context or plain factual.  I recently asked some friends of mine both in real life and second life “so what is it that makes me such a bad person to people and talk the way they do about me?”  The answer was not a shock but confirmed what I had always been thinking; I’m a woman and one of color I may add.  Get off your high horse as if you don’t see color. We all do!!! Since taking on The Best of SL & Co., I have received such things as it’s just a matter of time before it closes, she doesn’t know how to run a company; She is just a B***h that thinks she is all that.  Now, why do I differ from a man?  Does this mean that women would rather follow men?  What are they hoping for, is it that they need someone to lead them, tell them they look pretty all the time and the verbal affections of a man whether good or bad? I had a pity party alone, and then decided who the hell these people are, and they have no clue of what they are saying about me.  I have gotten to a point of...
Laying down the hammer or nah

Laying down the hammer or nah

“Laying down the hammer or nah” In the business world, we are not good about sharing our emotions — unless the emotion is anger! We show anger very easily. We kid ourselves that we are most effective or ‘professional’ in the business world when it is a stiff and formal place. When we experience rejection, we feel hurt. That is an important emotion to notice and to acknowledge. When we are little kids, our parents can pick us up and kiss our bruises and make us feel better. As little kids we’re not embarrassed to say “I got hurt” or “Those kids hurt my feelings.” As we get older, we don’t talk so readily about our hurt feelings. We still feel pain, but it translates into anger. We don’t say “You guys, it really hurts me when I see you not fulfilling your word. I don’t know what to do about it. I’m doing the best I can. I want to be a good team player to you guys. How can we work together more effectively?” Instead, we say “You people better shape up or ship out! Or better yet I’m out ” We don’t want to talk about our hurt feelings, so we get angry and bring the hammer down, instead. When managers and leaders feel anger, they have lots of ways to show it! They can discipline employees. They can write people up and put them on probation. You could even fire someone on your team — but what good would that do? (Note* Some people def need to be fired.) You know that the energy in...
Hypocrisy

Hypocrisy

A brand new year is upon us, and as I look back on the last year, I realize all the mistakes that I have made with business associates and with so-called friends. As fun as I know Second Life to be it has its share of being a great rumor mill. My name has been used in many rumors from firing people to saying unruly and untrue things of others when in fact my time has been very limited within this virtual world we all know and love. I find it amazing that within such a creative outlet place so many have so much hatred within their beings that many find themselves yearning for real life as it’s filled with less drama and much more excitement. When I came to Second Life it was a place to escape from the real world problems if only for a second, to be whatever you wanted to be and to be accepted, or so one would think when in fact you are judged to a much higher level as expected not to have any flaws or make any mistakes. Realizing that if I sneezed the wrong way it would be taken very negative and considered drama.   I can’t tell you how many times I have been asked not to have people work for me, not include them in projects I may be working on all because of a misunderstanding or a past treatment, misconception or just not getting along. I would ask myself what did this have to do with myself and the business that I run after all its business...
LOYALTY

LOYALTY

Surround yourself with the dreamers and the doers, the believers and the thinkers, but most of all, surround yourself with those who see greatness within you, even when you don’t see it yourself. (T.D. Jakes). I am the master of my house and the keeper of my mind. Trying to work towards excellence with integrity and honor sometimes can be a battle. Tiring days of seeing negative posts on social media about things only people can imagine with no truth to them at all. Never a kind word they speak, finding fault in all that you do. I used to find this very upsetting and would get mad that people would make up such things about me, and then I started to realize and understand –there is not one thing I can do about it, people will believe what they choose to believe whether the story is true or not. Being in the center of the public eye, one has to expect that they will be ridiculed with every step they make. The reason is simple; they just don’t understand. Is it my place to try and defend all that is said about me? I think not. What good would that do, only to fuel the negative thoughts and end up trying to explain again the unexplainable? Some choose only to be loyal to that which provides them with a temporary fix and makes them look good. Once that time is over, they are onto the next shiny thing that they think will make them big. How many times have I heard, “your business is failing”, or “who does...
GIVING CREDIT WHERE CREDIT IS DUE!!

GIVING CREDIT WHERE CREDIT IS DUE!!

A Good Leader Takes More Than His Share Of The Blame, A Little Less Than His Share Of The Credit. (Arnold H. Glasow)     Let’s just be clear… Giving credit where credit is due seems to be the subject everyone wants to have their hands in. We all want to the pat on the back for a job well done in this day and age. I can’t tell you how many countless hours I have put into projects from behind the scenes in order to make my superiors look good without a word or even my name for some invention or a piece of writing on “how to” to get them to the next level. It use to upset me to the fullest, and I use to rant about it to my co-workers, family, friends and anyone whom would take the time to listen. Then one day the “Ah-Ha” moment hit me. I am sure that many of you have had those “Ah-Ha” moments in life where something comes to you and where you had your blinders on, you now are seeing things much clearer. All of those times I wrote or came up with ideas for others was preparing me for greater things and to be able to move into my destiny. I learned that what I wrote or invented no one would ever be able to explain what I did or how I did it to the extent as I would. What was I worrying about? Let the Executives ask how something was accomplished because that meant that the subject matter expert “being me” would ultimately...
Attitude+Purpose=Destiny

Attitude+Purpose=Destiny

This one has been a long time coming. I have shed some tears, gotten angry, stepped back and had much reflection on even how to present on this very topic. So many may relate to it, and some may walk away, however; in the end many may come to know who I am and what I truly stand for. I want to preface this and  all other posts that I make, have no bearing on my relationship with my Second life Husband. He and I had relationships before we met each other, and sometimes we share about those mountains we had to climb to get where we are today.   We try to be transparent in our journeys with you, so try not to think that our blogs are about each other in fact it’s just the opposite of how we found each other and ultimately what holds us together. I have been reading many books and listening to many ministries and praying in hopes to finding my purpose and destiny. I sit back and think “There is more to life”. I am always striving for more. What that tells me is that I have not reached my true potential and purpose in life. The more I read, the more I pray I start to realize what actions are happening around me. People would tell me things to either depress me or make me upset. People would talk about me and say things that were very untrue. I would hear things such as “I heard this about you but didn’t believe it, until now”- from someone who has known me...
Once upon a time….

Once upon a time….

For as long as I can remember I have always believed that I would find that one for me. That person who I was so proud to call mine and they proud to call there own. I believed that if I ever found such a person that the love we had would be so strong nothing could tear it apart. I so strongly believed that this person existed after all I had seen others  have it, it was even found in the bible these type of relationships. After all God even said that he would cause man and wife to cleave to each other. I knew that existed and all my life I believed I would find it. In my search I looked all the wrong places. I found myself time and time again subject to the same pattern. A certain persistent crucible . It went a little something like this. Yeah I realize you want to give me your all but, I just got hurt bymy ex and I’m never giving my all to anyone else. Or my ex just put me thru so much hell and he said he loved me and you say you love me but when he said he loved me he cheated on me he used me and so I don’t believe that it means much and you shall now jump thru 500 fiery hoops to prove to me you love me and if at any point I’m not satisfied then you sir have completely wasted your time because I will move on. Or I have been there done that in my past relationships I’m so not...
FOOL’S GOLD

FOOL’S GOLD

As I lay in bed thinking of only you.  How our life is going to be in the future to come.  I hear wedding bells, you’re the only one for me.  My days at work I can’t concentrate as I am overwhelmed with the feelings that I have for you, can’t wait for you to call just to hear your voice how it always seems to calm me.  I have forgotten my past and have started to focus on my present and my future as the picture you paint for me seems to be one of such fresh and newness. Was it all just a dream, am I mistaken that all I thought was love was a mere façade?   I question myself in following in the beliefs that you truly loved me.  I was blinded by my own stupidity. Things I refused to accept I kept making excuses for.  The girls, the long nights out you said you were working, the late night phone calls; what was I thinking?  I made myself believe you truly loved me, living in my own fantasy.  The dream you built that shaded my eyes so that I could not properly see or my ears could not truly hear the screams of reality. I trusted you with my heart and I can only blame myself for letting it be torn apart.  Having that gut intuition and not listening is my own fault, chasing fool’s gold.   The hurt the pain inside of thinking I could never live without you, my dreams now shattered and feel like living in a state of constant confusion and in...
BELIEVE IT OR NOT!!!!   **REIGN’S RANT**

BELIEVE IT OR NOT!!!! **REIGN’S RANT**

  It continues to baffle me how people think I owe everyone an answer to something that might or might not be true.  How I run my business, how I handle my relationships and the never ending hearsay.  It seems to run ramped in this world we call Second Life.  Those that claim they don’t do drama are the cause of much drama and when I decide to eliminate them from my life, and then I become the bad person.  Is there anyone out there with this same issue?  I am sure there are lots.   It seems that many want to be involved in either telling you how to run your business, who you should hire, who you should fire, always questioning your actions (if you say something you’re wrong, if you don’t your still wrong), seems to me a losing battle with people who do not even have their own houses under control.  I have stated “Seek to First Understand and Then Be Understood” ‘Steven Covey~. Where are the days that if you had any doubts in your mind about something being said about someone you would first seek out to find out if the information is true, the source and always knowing there are three sides to a story (Your’s, Mine and the Truth).   It seems I am always under fire for decisions I make and I am always judged on them one way or another.  Well honestly, who gave you the right to judge me when you have a glass house of your own? Instead of listening to negativity why not try and be...
MAKING YOUR MATE YOUR PRIORITY..

MAKING YOUR MATE YOUR PRIORITY..

Its been a while since Kev and I last wrote as our real lives have gotten a tad bit busy however; we are back.  I felt the urge to write about “Making your mate your priority” as I have come across in my real life as well as Second life of couples that have been together for very long periods of time.  I was talking to some co-workers and both of them stated they had been married in excess of 30 years.  My question to them was “How do you make it work?”  With not even a moment to think about it they both stated they are the best of friends and actually like each other and enjoy being around each other.  One lady told me that if an event is going on and one or the other is not invited, they figure out how they both can go.  It’s for only short periods of time that they are actually apart.  This blew me away especially over 30 years of marriage.   Reading as I like to do as well as just receiving people’s opinions, I have always wanted to know how marriages last this long in a society where you see so many getting married and not even making it to their first anniversary.  What are the secret ingredients?  I cannot speak for all but the majority of people that I talk to would love to have a long term/marital relationship; we have to ask ourselves what does it take and are we willing to do it?   The more I study these couples and ask questions, some...

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